As we read headlines about celebrities marriages beaking up (Heidi Klum & Seal, married 7 years) saying they were "fighting constantly at the end" I offer this from Elusive Peace: "Many conflicts arise because someone feells that he or she has not been heard. Each story is a tale of perceived injustice." p. 49 When we are triggered we stop listening. There are solutions for peace in all conflicts through skilled mediation. http://ping.fm/JuYPC